Realistic dildos can be a welcome addition to your naughty drawer, whether you’re new to sex toys or an experienced user, single or coupled, and male or female, regardless of sexual preference.

Dildos let you experience the feeling of being penetrated when and how you want, in positions and scenarios that may not otherwise be possible, and with different shapes and sizes. They help you discover what you find most pleasurable.

But with the number of options ever-increasing, what is the best realistic dildo? It depends on your needs and wants.

The best realistic dildo for your meets your requirements on important features...

The material used to make a dildo can significantly affect how realistic it is regardless of appearance.

Realistic feel materials are elastomer-based with a soft, smooth, flexible and lifelike feel. However, they have a rubbery smell and taste. Being porous, they’re also difficult to clean.

Silicone dildos are silky smooth, flexible, odourless and tasteless, and range from soft to firm in density. They are non-porous and easy to clean but can vary in purity so it’s best to choose trusted brands.

For more information, read our Guide to Sex Toy Materials.  

The best realistic dildo is one you find comfortable, pleasurable and easy to use. Ensure its features meet your needs and wants without sacrificing any that are important to you.

Remember, your dildo collection needn't comprise just one! You can gradually build it up so you have options to suit your changing desires and playtime situations.

Once you have your new dildo, remember to clean and store it as directed by the manufacturer, and use with plenty of compatible lubricant for maximum pleasure. For more information, read our tips on Caring for Your Sex Toy and Guide to Personal Lubricant.